SOCIAL EQUILIBRIUM REQUIRES WOMEN’S EQUALITY

This excellent post was written by Kamala Lopez of Equal Means Equal and reprinted here with permission. 

The topic and the framing of this article is so timely that we wish to give it more exposure, given the fact that we are experiencing attacks on women’s rights across the political spectrum and we are flirting with annihilation due to men’s obsession with domination and force. It is time to rethink all of our institutions, which have been originated by men, cultivated by men, and which are severely limited, hampered, and blinkered by the male viewpoint. And it is past time that women had a seat at the table with the power brokers, or better yet, were at the helm of the Ship of State.

We offer this as a fundamental analysis of what has gone wrong, from the beginnings of patriarchal society, and the desperate need for balance, for equilibrium, in the egalitarian execution of power and authority, and in who decides society’s values.

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SOCIAL EQUILIBRIUM REQUIRES WOMEN’S EQUALITY

What if women’s equality is not simply a matter of justice, but something human civilization needs to survive?

September 2026

Something is profoundly out of balance.

What we are presently witnessing in the world is evidence of a deeper imbalance in the way human beings have organized power itself — what we reward, what we admire, what we protect, whose experiences we value, and what we are willing to sacrifice in the pursuit of dominance, security, wealth or control.

Human beings have become extraordinarily powerful. We have developed technologies capable of connecting billions of people instantaneously, but also of monitoring and manipulating them.
We possess weapons capable of destroying entire populations and economic systems capable of generating previously unimaginable wealth, even as millions struggle to meet basic human needs.
We have acquired the ability to alter, on a planetary scale, the natural systems upon which our lives depend, while remaining bitterly divided over our responsibility to preserve them.

Our capacity to exercise power has accelerated at a breathtaking rate. But what of our capacity to exercise that power wisely?

This moment requires us to look beyond the crisis immediately in front of us to what kind of society our understanding of power has produced, what values have been elevated in constructing it, and what human capacities we have consistently undervalued along the way.

The task is not simply to stop things from getting worse, but to understand what it would take to bring us into balance.


The Experiment Humanity Has Never Conducted

Human beings have experimented with almost every imaginable way of organizing ourselves. We have lived under monarchies and republics, democracies and dictatorships, empires and federations. We have organized economies around feudalism, capitalism, socialism, communism and innumerable combinations of them. We have concentrated power in kings, parliaments, parties, corporations, religious authorities and revolutionary movements.

But across these vastly different systems, one variable has remained remarkably constant: men have overwhelmingly held vastly more institutional power than women.

That fact makes it difficult to know what a genuinely balanced human civilization would look like, because we have never actually built one.

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To understand what that imbalance may have meant for the civilizations we did build, we have to look at something more fundamental than the particular forms their governments took. We have to look at the underlying bargain about how human beings agree to live together and what we decide matters.


Every Society Rests Upon a Bargain About What Matters

One of the oldest questions in political philosophy is also one of the simplest: Why should one human being have the right to tell another human being what they can and cannot do?

Wherever human beings have lived together, societies have needed ways of deciding who holds authority, how decisions are made, what obligations people have to one another, how resources are shared, how conflicts are resolved and what responsibilities the community assumes for its members.

The answers have taken radically different forms across cultures and across time. Long before European colonization, for example, Indigenous peoples throughout the Americas had developed complex and widely varying systems of government, diplomacy, alliance and collective decision-making.¹

One particularly relevant example is the Haudenosaunee Confederacy, formed by the Mohawk, Oneida, Onondaga, Cayuga and Seneca nations, and later joined by the Tuscarora. Its Great Law of Peace established a system of government based upon consensus and principles intended to preserve peace through reason rather than force.² And significantly for the questions we will eventually be asking here, women were not simply subjects of that political order. Haudenosaunee clan mothers held substantial authority within it. They selected the male leaders who served on the Grand Council and possessed the authority to remove a leader who failed to serve the interests of the people.³

Centuries later, a particular tradition of European political philosophy addressed legitimate authority through an idea that would profoundly influence the political institutions of the modern West: the social contract.

At its heart was the principle that the exercise of power over other human beings requires justification.

We live with the consequences of that bargain every day. We agree not to drive through red lights. We pay taxes—although the obligation to support the society from which we benefit is hardly distributed equally. We accept restrictions on our individual freedom that make it possible for millions of people to live together, and we grant government the extraordinary authority to make laws, enforce them and punish those who violate them. In exchange, we expect certain things: that the law will protect us, that our rights will be respected, that public institutions will function, and that the enormous power we have entrusted to government will be exercised according to rules rather than the whims of whoever happens to possess it.

There is no actual contract, of course. None of us was handed a document at birth and asked whether we agreed to the terms. The social contract is a philosophical way of asking what could justify the authority that government exercises over us.

At its core lies the idea that legitimate political authority must rest, in some meaningful sense, upon the agreement or consent of the people who live under it. What constitutes meaningful consent—and what people would reasonably agree to—has produced centuries of argument.⁴

John Locke (England, 1632–1704) argued that human beings are naturally “free, equal, and independent,” and that no person can legitimately be subjected to another’s political power without consent. People create government in order to live together securely and protect their rights, but government does not therefore acquire unlimited authority over them; its legitimate authority derives from the consent of the people who have entrusted it with power.5

Jean-Jacques Rousseau (Geneva/Switzerland, 1712–1778) approached legitimate authority through collective self-government: human beings could live together under laws and nevertheless remain free only if those laws expressed what he called the “general will of the people” who were themselves required to obey them.6

Political power requires justification.

The fact that someone possesses power does not, by itself, establish a moral right to exercise it over someone else. The people who must live under a political order must therefore figure into the legitimacy of that order.

Every society embodies choices about what it will protect and what it will tolerate; what it will reward and what it will neglect; what individuals owe one another and what they owe the larger community; whose freedom must be protected and under what circumstances it may be constrained; which forms of work are valuable; whose suffering demands a collective response; and what obligations the living have to those who will come after us. We may never sit around a table and negotiate these terms, but together they constitute a bargain about what matters.

That bargain is expressed in our constitutions and laws, but it is also embedded in our institutions, our economic systems, our customs and our assumptions about what—and who—is valuable. And because those arrangements were created by human beings rather than handed down by nature, they reflect the histories, interests, experiences and values of those who had the power to shape them.


Who Got to Negotiate the Bargain?

For most of recorded history, the answer is clear: men did. Overwhelmingly.

Certainly, there have been cultures in which women exercised forms of political, economic and social authority that complicate any simple story of universal male rule. But the institutions that eventually came to dominate much of the modern world—governments, legal systems, militaries, organized religions, systems of property and commerce, universities and, eventually, corporations—developed overwhelmingly under conditions in which formal authority belonged to men.

Yet women were at the heart of civilization’s creation. They did much of the work without which civilization could not have existed at all.

Women transmitted knowledge and culture across generations and performed enormous amounts of agricultural and other productive labor. They bore and raised children, produced and prepared food, cared for the sick and elderly, maintained households, preserved relationships and communities. The precise division of that work varied tremendously across societies, classes and historical periods, but one fact is remarkably persistent: the work necessary to sustain human life, largely done by women, very rarely brought with it the authority commensurate with its importance to human survival.

Recognized authority—the power to own and control property, interpret religious doctrine, command armies, govern institutions, make laws and determine who would be bound by them—remained overwhelmingly in male hands.

The contradiction is particularly striking in the European social-contract tradition itself. Locke could write that human beings were naturally “free, equal, and independent” in a world in which women did not possess anything approaching equal political or legal authority. Rousseau could construct a theory in which legitimate law derived from the collective self-government of the people while imagining political citizenship as fundamentally male.

The contradiction is not incidental to the history of the social contract. It exposes a problem at its center: Who counts as one of the people whose consent makes political authority legitimate?

The same problem followed the social-contract tradition across the Atlantic. The United States would proclaim as a foundational principle that “all men are created equal” while constructing a political order that denied most of the people living within it any equal role in determining its terms. Enslaved people were held as property. Women were legally subordinated to fathers and husbands. Indigenous peoples were displaced and denied the sovereignty they already possessed. Many Americans without property, female and male, lived under laws they had no equal political authority to make or change. The language of universal liberty emerged alongside systems that defined very narrowly who was entitled to exercise it.

What is often invisible is the extent to which institutions carry their histories forward. Systems of government, law, economics and social organization do not disappear and begin again every generation. They evolve, certainly, but from what original point of departure? We inherit them, modify them, fight over them and occasionally transform them, but we begin with structures already built and assumptions already embedded within them.

Women eventually forced their way into many of the institutions from which they had been excluded. They acquired property rights, entered universities and professions, won political rights, held public office, built businesses, joined militaries and assumed positions of authority that had been explicitly denied to previous generations of women.

But entering an existing system is not the same thing as having equal power to determine the values upon which that system was built.

If the institutions that have exercised the greatest power over human civilization were shaped during centuries in which women did not possess equal authority within them, then our social contract was necessarily shaped without the full range of women’s experience, knowledge and values.


Which Human Values Have Power?

The consequences to society of women’s exclusion from equal authority extend to which human values our institutions learned to recognize and reward.

For centuries, the institutions with the greatest formal power—government, organized religion, law, commerce and the military—were overwhelmingly controlled by men, and they developed within cultures that assigned distinctly different and often rigid roles to men and women.

Men were generally expected to operate in the public sphere: governing, fighting, trading, acquiring property, competing for status and accumulating wealth. Women were largely assigned responsibility for the private sphere: bearing and raising children, caring for the sick and elderly, feeding families, maintaining households and sustaining the relationships upon which communities depended.

Over time, these divisions created a profound disparity not simply in who possessed power, but in what kinds of human activity were understood to matter. The work associated with the public sphere acquired money, status and institutional authority. The work associated with sustaining human beings was more likely to be unpaid, invisible or simply expected.

As a result, the qualities that powerful institutions tended to reward—competition, conquest, accumulation, dominance, individual achievement and control—reinforced the qualities traditionally associated with masculinity and the roles assigned to men. Meanwhile, cooperation, caregiving, empathy, interdependence, restraint and responsibility for the vulnerable and for future generations were more often associated with femininity and relegated to the private sphere.*

And so, societies built under conditions of overwhelming male institutional power privileged certain human values over others—and that imbalance became embedded in the institutions we inherited.

But simply allowing women to enter those institutions will not necessarily correct it. As we’ve seen, women can achieve extraordinary things within systems whose fundamental definitions of success, value and power have already been established without necessarily changing what the hierarchy rewards.

The potential to truly reshape the social contract lies in women having enough power to change what power itself values.


*Those qualities don’t belong inherently to either sex. Men are capable of extraordinary care, empathy, cooperation and sacrifice; women can be competitive, aggressive, acquisitive and authoritarian. Human beings contain all of these capacities, and culture profoundly influences which ones we are encouraged to develop and rewarded for exercising.


What Happens When Women Have Power?

If excluding women from power profoundly affected which human needs our institutions recognized and valued, then giving women meaningful political authority should change what those institutions see and what they do.

There is evidence that it does.

One of the clearest examples comes from India, where a constitutional reform required one-third of village council leadership positions to be reserved for women. Because the councils receiving female leaders were selected randomly, economists Raghabendra Chattopadhyay and Esther Duflo were able to compare otherwise similar communities governed by women and men. What they found was not simply that women governed differently. They invested differently.

Women leaders directed significantly more resources toward infrastructure particularly important to the daily lives of rural women, including drinking water, while male leaders invested more heavily in other priorities. Women were also more likely to participate in the political process when their village was led by a woman.7

The need for clean water had always existed. Women had always been carrying water, using it to feed their families and dealing with the consequences when access was inadequate. What changed was not the need. What changed was who had the authority to make the need visible to government.

Another study from India found something initially disturbing: as women’s representation in local government increased, officially recorded crimes against women increased as well. But researchers Lakshmi Iyer, Anandi Mani, Prachi Mishra and Petia Topalova found evidence that the increase reflected greater reporting of violence rather than greater incidence of violence.

More women in political power had apparently changed women’s willingness or ability to bring violence against them into the official record. And interestingly, broad female membership on local councils mattered more than simply placing individual women in higher-level leadership positions.8

Again, the violence had not suddenly appeared. Government had become better able to see it.

The consequences of women’s participation in power become particularly consequential in decisions of war and peace, where the lives of thousands—or millions—of human beings may hang in the balance.

Research examining more than 270,000 candidates across 50 countries found that when women won legislative office, subsequent foreign military actions decreased in countries where legislatures had the power to constrain military deployment. Women legislators also influenced how their colleagues voted on the use of military force. When women had a meaningful voice in decisions about war, those decisions changed.9

Experience affects perception, and perception affects what power notices. When people who have lived different experiences acquire meaningful authority—not merely symbolic presence—they can bring previously marginalized needs into the field of political vision.

The evidence from India suggests something larger than a difference in policy preferences. When women gain meaningful authority, experiences that have historically remained outside the field of institutional power begin to enter it. Water becomes not merely something women carry, but infrastructure government must provide. Violence against women becomes not merely something endured in private, but something the state is required to recognize and address.

These are not peripheral concerns. They are the infrastructure of human survival. Clean water, food, health, safety, education, care, a livable environment and the ability to raise the next generation are not secondary to the functioning of a society; they are the reason a society needs to function in the first place. Yet we have become accustomed to measuring the success of our societies through other forms of achievement—economic growth, productivity, technological advancement, military strength and the accumulation of wealth.

Women’s equal power has implications beyond whether government pays greater attention to certain neglected needs.
It challenges what we have been using to measure human progress itself.

Human beings learn from what they are required to do. Experience produces knowledge, and responsibility produces expertise. And when particular experiences are systematically concentrated among people who are simultaneously excluded from power, the knowledge gained through those experiences is less likely to shape the decisions power makes.

That may be one of the most consequential losses produced by inequality. A society can possess extraordinary technological, military and economic power while remaining remarkably unsophisticated about the human systems upon which its own survival depends.

We can know how to produce more without knowing when enough is enough; how to dominate without knowing when restraint is necessary; how to measure economic growth without adequately measuring the human cost of achieving it.

What becomes visible when women have equal power, then, is not a collection of “women’s issues” at all.

What becomes visible is what it actually takes to keep human beings alive.

Seen from this perspective, women’s equality is no longer only about what women are entitled to. It is also about what society needs.

Those who possess power shape what institutions see, what they value and what they do. When women’s experience, knowledge and strengths are left out of the equation, society loses access to knowledge essential to human survival.

We have been making decisions about human welfare, economic systems, technology, the environment, violence, war and the future while blindly excluding the experience of more than half of humanity from equal authority in shaping those decisions.

The exclusion of women from equal power is not merely an injustice perpetrated against women; it is a structural limitation imposed upon society as a whole.

Inequality harms not only the people denied equality; it may ultimately threaten the continued existence of the society that perpetuates it.


Dangerous Imbalance Meets Unprecedented Power

The stakes are particularly urgent now because human beings have never possessed this much power before.

Our power is accelerating faster than our ability to agree upon the values that should govern it, while women still do not possess equal power to construct the rules of the game. That combination should alarm us: unprecedented human power operating through institutions built upon an inherited imbalance of human power.

The social contract was never static. Every generation has inherited institutions built for an earlier world and modified them to confront circumstances their predecessors could not have imagined. Yet we continue to rely on a social contract constructed for a world that no longer exists, even as the scale and speed of human power are transforming the conditions under which we live.

Our capacity to exercise power has outrun our capacity to govern it. Rebalancing whose voices shape that power is no longer something humanity can afford to postpone.


The American Question

If women’s equal participation in power is necessary to the legitimacy of the social contract, then equality cannot remain something we hope institutions will gradually achieve. It has to become one of the principles upon which those institutions are required to operate.

Nearly a century after the Equal Rights Amendment was first introduced, and more than half a century after Congress finally sent it to the states, the United States still does not officially recognize it as part of our Constitution.

Thirty-eight states have ratified the ERA—the number Article V requires—but the National Archives continues to refuse to certify and publish it, relying on the position that Congress’s ratification deadline was legally enforceable and had expired before the final three states acted. Constitutional scholars, advocates and public officials have disputed that conclusion, and President Biden declared in January 2025 that he believed the ERA had been ratified and was the law of the land. Yet the amendment remains unpublished, and the National Archives’ stated position is that it cannot legally publish the ERA under existing legal precedents unless Congress or the courts act.10

We are asking who gets to shape the social contract and whether humanity can afford to continue making consequential decisions without women possessing equal authority—and the Constitution of the United States still does not contain an explicit guarantee that equality of rights cannot be denied or abridged on account of sex.

The Constitution is the legal embodiment of the American social contract.

It establishes the fundamental principles upon which we agree to govern ourselves: who may exercise power, where that power comes from, what limits are placed upon it and which rights cannot legitimately be bargained away when political majorities, governments or circumstances change.

Equality between women and men must be one of those fundamental principles, and therefore it belongs there.

The ERA has traditionally been understood as something women have sought from the Constitution: protection against unequal treatment, a stronger legal foundation for challenging sex discrimination and formal recognition of women’s equal status under law.

But the Constitution itself was devised without the equal benefit of women’s intellect, experience and knowledge of human life.

The people who determined its original terms—and the institutions, rights and relationships of power it established—did so without women participating on equal political terms.

That is not simply an injustice embedded in the social contract. It is a blind spot in the social contract itself.

Perhaps the Constitution needs the Equal Rights Amendment as much as women do.

A political system that derives its legitimacy from “We the People” cannot indefinitely leave the constitutional equality of more than half of those people unresolved. And a society confronting decisions of unprecedented consequence cannot afford institutions whose foundational governing document fails to state unequivocally that women and men stand equal before the law.

The ERA therefore belongs not only to the history of the women’s movement but to the future of the American social contract. It would protect women within the system we inherited while establishing something more fundamental: women must possess equal authority in determining what that system becomes next.


The Experiment We Must Conduct

We know that when women acquire meaningful authority, institutions can begin to recognize different problems, respond to different needs and make different choices.

But even those experiments have taken place inside systems whose fundamental architecture was already established.

What we do not know is what would happen if women possessed equal power not simply to participate in those systems, but to reimagine them.

What would our economies measure?
What would we consider security?
What would we consider prosperity?
How would we value care?
What obligations would we recognize toward children, the elderly, the vulnerable, the natural world, and generations not yet born?
What would we ask technology to accomplish?
When would we decide that the exercise of power requires restraint?

I don’t know the answers to those questions. None of us does.

We have spent thousands of years experimenting with different ways of arranging human civilization while leaving one of its most fundamental arrangements essentially unchanged.

We have repeatedly changed the form of government, the organization of the economy, the distribution of property, the boundaries of nations and the technologies through which power is exercised.

But we have never tried balance.


Notes

¹ Smithsonian National Museum of the American Indian, Native Knowledge 360°, “Essential Understandings.” NMAI documents the complex and varied systems of government, diplomacy, alliance, war and peacemaking developed by Indigenous peoples in the Americas long before European colonization.

² Smithsonian National Museum of the American Indian, Native Knowledge 360°, “American Revolution: Haudenosaunee Perseverance.” The Smithsonian describes the Great Law of Peace as emphasizing the power of reason rather than force in preserving peace.

³ Smithsonian National Museum of the American Indian, Native Knowledge 360°, “American Revolution: Haudenosaunee Perseverance.” Clan mothers select male leaders and possess authority to remove a leader who fails to serve the interests of his people.

⁴ Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy, “Legal Obligation and Authority.” Social-contract traditions address the conditions under which political authority can legitimately bind those subject to it.

⁵ Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy, “Locke’s Political Philosophy.” Locke’s political theory grounds legitimate government in the natural freedom and equality of individuals and in consent to political authority.

⁶ Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy, “Jean Jacques Rousseau.” Rousseau’s account of the general will connects legitimate law with collective self-government; his conception of political citizenship nevertheless excluded women.

⁷ Raghabendra Chattopadhyay and Esther Duflo, “Women as Policy Makers: Evidence from a India-Wide Randomized Policy Experiment,” Econometrica 72, no. 5 (2004): 1409–1444.

⁸ Lakshmi Iyer, Anandi Mani, Prachi Mishra and Petia Topalova, “The Power of Political Voice: Women’s Political Representation and Crime in India,” American Economic Journal: Applied Economics 4, no. 4 (2012): 165–193.

⁹ Kyosuke Kikuta, “More Equality for Women Does Mean Less War: Descriptive Representation, Legislative Votes, and International Conflict,” Comparative Political Studies 59, no. 1 (2026): 110–154.

¹⁰ National Archives and Records Administration, “Statement on the Equal Rights Amendment Ratification Process,” December 17, 2024; President Joseph R. Biden Jr., “Statement on the Equal Rights Amendment,” January 17, 2025. NARA stated that under existing legal, judicial and procedural decisions the ERA could not be certified or published without further action by Congress or the courts. Biden subsequently stated that he believed the ERA had become part of the Constitution and was “the law of the land.”

Don’t mourn, organize! Celebrating the life of Robin Morgan

By Ann E. Menasche

The prolific writer and passionate radical feminist organizer, Robin Morgan, passed away on September 5th, 2026, leaving a rich legacy for future generations of feminists.

  Known for her groundbreaking anthology “Sisterhood is Powerful” (she used the profits from that book to fund the first battered women’s shelters), and many other books and poems,. Robin was a product of the anti-Vietnam war, and civil rights Left of the 1960’s that birthed the Women’s Liberation Movement.

She was among the first to call out the Left for its sexism in an essay entitled “Goodbye to All That”  and proclaim the right of women to organize in our own name for our own liberation. http://blog.fair-use.org/2007/09/29/goodbye-to-all-that-by-robin-morgan-1970/.    Here is a short excerpt:

“Let’s run it down. White males are most responsible for the destruction of human life and environment on the planet today. Yet who is controlling the supposed revolution to change all that? White males (yes, yes, even with their pasty fingers back in black and brown pies again). It could just make one a bit uneasy. It seems obvious that a legitimate revolution must be led by, made by those who have been most oppressed: black, brown, yellow, red, and white women–with men relating to that the best they can. A genuine Left doesn’t consider anyone’s suffering irrelevant or titillating; nor does it function as a microcosm of capitalist economy, with men competing for power and status at the top, and women doing all the work at the bottom (and functioning as objectified prizes or coin as well). Goodbye to all that.”

Words that are, sadly,  still relevant to the misogynist Left today.

Robin cofounded radical feminists groups such as Women’s International Terrorist Conspiracy from Hell (“WITCH”)and New York Radical Women, the latter group organizing in 1968 the first protests against the Miss America Pageant for its treatment of women as sex objects.

She was also among the first to call out male cross-dressers, including men claiming to be women, for their arrogant intrusion into women’s identities and spaces, when she spoke at the 1972 West Coast Lesbian Conference. “No, I will call a malc “she;” thirty-two years or suffering in the androcentric society. and of surviving, have earned me the name “Woman”; onc walk down the streel by a male transvestitc, five minutes of his being hasslcd (which he may enjoy), and then he dares.to think he understands our pain? No, in our mothers’ names and in our own. we must not call him sister. ” Lesbianism-and-Feminism-Synonyms-or-Contradictions-by-Robin-Morgan-April-14-1973.pdf

In the 1980’s, she collaborated with French feminist Simone De Beauvoir on international feminist work, co-founding with De Beauvoir the Sisterhood is Global Institute.  She also became editor in chief of Ms. Magazine.

In later years, she co-founded with Gloria Steinem and Jane Fonda the Women’s Media Center, supporting women in media, and hosted a podcast almost up till her death.   Her activism never stopped.

You will not be forgotten, sister.

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1) Melissa Farley is a clinical research and psychologist who has coauthored 55 peer reviewed articles on prostitution. As a result of 30 years of research interviews with prostitution survivors and also with sex buyers, Dr. Farley is now a prostitution abolitionist. She recently wrote Demystifying Epstein which you can access at the nonprofit Prostitution Research & Education website www.prostitutionresearch.com has 15 libraries on different topics related to the sex trade. Melissa Farley welcomes questions, volunteers, and donations. mfarley@prostitutionresearch.com or 415-254-4377.

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The 2026 Mid-Terms: Republicrats, Fetishists, and Asshats

This piece is the opinion of the author and does not necessarily reflect the opinions of Feminists in Struggle as an organization.

Well, it’s time for the gearing up of the duopoly for the midterms, and it is notable that both major parties once again think that targeting the rights of women and girls is a great idea. On the Republican side we have the zygote zealots attempting to block Mifepristone, criminalize abortion, and even wishing they could strip women of the right to vote. They should make Monty Python’s “Every Sperm is Sacred” their anthem because their fealty is more to Christian dominionist male supremacy than to the Constitution.

On the Democratic side, candidates are still pushing gender ideology, apparently ok with gender ideologues screaming “Trans women ARE women!” to anyone who is reality based enough to recognize biological sex, attacking defenders of girls’ sports, grown men calling young teenage girls “trash”. It’s ok, apparently for 12-year-old girls who don’t think they should have to undress in front of entitled, (and in the case of the recent plaintiff in the sports case, “BPJ”, who sexually harassed one of the girls in the locker room) revolting, little boys who claim they are “trans” in order to gain access to their sports and locker rooms.  It also appears to be completely acceptable to Democrats for trans-identified males to make rape and death threats to anyone who reminds them of the biological reality that men cannot be women.

Republicans continue to run woman haters and Democrats continue to run woman impersonators. The special treat this election season, after candidate for the Maine Senate, Nazi tattooed misogynist candidate Graham Platner, who finally was asked to step down after rape allegations (why should the Republicans get to be the only ones to run sex offenders?), is a trans “woman” who claims to have “ovaries” and menstruate from his rectum. This development prompted one person on social media to post “Susan Collins is the luckiest woman alive!” Either that or Democrats are doing a hell of a vetting job.

I’ve got news for you deluded Democrats and gender ideologues, “Ashley” Webb with his colonic periods and Bryon Noem of “bimbofication” and “looning” fame are what the majority of trans “women” are like—they are fetishistic, deranged men. Transgenderism is not a “human rights issue” or “just another healthy choice”, however hip, “innate”, or “kink positive” (a spurious and oxymoronic term if there ever was one) you think it is.

Republicans need to be reminded that there are women not only in their voter base but make up large percentages of elected representatives in state houses throughout the country, so maybe trying to deprive them of their right to vote, whether by passing the SAVE Act or attempting to roll back the 19th amendment, may be self-defeating, and that putting women’s health and lives in danger by criminalizing abortion and treating women like incubators is not only cruel and inhumane but not a winning strategy. Letting mothers die who need emergency abortions is not exactly “pro-family”, and elevating fetal life over the life of the mother is not exactly “pro-life”, since the woman’s life is primary. Republicans also should be reminded that the majority of voters do not support the views espoused by social “influencers” in the Manosphere or the brazen misogyny of Hegseth, Fuentes, or the Tate brothers, and that sexual harassment and assault are criminal and moral offenses.

Democrats, who hypocritically claim the mantle of “science” and “free speech” meanwhile engaging in the denial of biological, material reality in favor of metaphysical nonsense based on circular definitions and undefinable vagueries, attempt to silence anyone who even questions gender ideology, calling them “bigots” and “transphobes”, callously disregarding the proven harm of “gender-affirming care,” and dismissing the opportunities, privacy, dignity, and safety of women and girls in sports. “Blue” states like Connecticut, Washington, California, New Jersey, and Illinois have even opened up domestic violence shelters to men masquerading as women, and are putting trans-identifying sex offenders in the same cells with women prisoners. This is nothing short of “cruel and unusual punishment”, prohibited by the 8th Amendment, if anyone cares anymore about the Constitution.

Both Democrats and Republicans need to be reminded of the basic fact that women are human.

Democrats and those to their left, like the Greens, the Democratic Socialists, Peace and Freedom, etc., who have remained obeisant to gender ideology and callously heedless to its assault on the rights of real women and girls will be the focus in this post. But in the future, there are serious reforms we need to make to the system by breaking up the duopoly—some would call a uniparty. Here are some ideas:

  • get Independents and third party candidates on the ballot and on the debate stage
  • ensure candidates are vetted thoroughly for honesty and ethical, pro-social (or at least not anti-social or sociopathic) conduct; eliminate malignant narcissists (it is too much to hope for that we could sift out the shameless self-promoters or opportunistic soul sellers?)
  • institute rank choice voting across the country as well as proportional representation
  • validate and enforce the fully-ratified Equal Rights Amendment
  • pass the We the People Amendment to end the two illegitimate legal doctrines of corporate so-called “personhood” and money as protected “speech”
  • pass a constitutional amendment prohibiting criminals from holding federal office
  • end impunity for oligarchs and corporations
  • pass Single Payer healthcare
  • stop funding endless wars
  • publicly fund political campaigns
  • end legal bribery and corporate lobbying of candidates
  • tax the billionaires into penury
  • institute citizen oversight of all three branches of government

But for now, we need to rein in the insanity of the current administration and hopefully curtail some of its egregious excesses, so we are dependent on the Democrats getting in office and hopefully holding it accountable. But first Democrats need to realize that Trump was elected in 2024 due to the following top 3 concerns according to polling:

  • The economy/inflation
  • The border/immigration
  • Opposition to gender identity

Democrats need to read The Reckoning: How the Democrats and the Left Betrayed Women and Girls and course correct.

We therefore invite members of the public who care about the rights of actual biological women and girls to direct the following questions to primarily Democratic candidates who are running for the first time or for re-election but others as well who subscribe to sex denialism.

QUESTIONS FOR CANDIDATES CAPTURED BY GENDER IDEOLOGY RUNNING FOR OFFICE

  • Democrats/Greens/Socialists claim to care about the rights of women, but the only right you defend is abortion. Why don’t you care about the obstruction of the fully-ratified Equal Rights Amendment, the degradation of women in prostitution, and the incursions of males into our sports and private spaces? Why are you not speaking out about those rights?
  • Why are you pursuing policies that prioritize trans rights over women’s rights, when women remain the only demographic left out of the federal Constitution and comprise half the population?
  • Why do you not seem to be concerned about the impact of these policies on biological women and girls whom you purport to represent?
  • Why are trans people who represent a fraction of the population being given more consideration than 51% of the population?
  • Why are trans rights always at the expense of biological women and girls? What legitimate civil or human rights movements have demanded that their rights supersede the rights of others?
  • What legitimate activists attempt to compel the speech of others and demand that they adhere to their terms and beliefs, in defiance of reality?
  • What legitimate movement attempts to silence, de-platform, smear, or threaten anyone who questions their beliefs and demands? Why is there no debate of these issues allowed?
  • Who are your donors, and how much are you getting from trans rights groups or groups promoting pornography and protecting pornographers, pimps, johns, and traffickers?
  • Why are you supporting the whitewashing of prostitution by calling it “sex work” as if it’s a legitimate job? Prostitution is the oldest oppression (NOT profession) and the commodification of women in this way is sexual slavery. Why are you not condemning this?
  • Are you aware that pharmaceuticals are prescribing Lupron, a chemical castration drug, off label to children to arrest puberty, and that it prevents bone and brain development?
  • Are you aware that gender clinics are prescribing cross-sex hormones and sex-rejecting surgeries on children and minors, including increasingly on young girls, referrals for which have skyrocketed in recent years, and who are now getting mastectomies and hysterectomies, and experiencing osteoporosis and menopause in adolescence? What are you doing about this?
  • Are you aware of the Cass Review of the GIDS Tavistock Clinic in the UK that exposed the faulty research and junk science on which so-called “gender-affirming care” is based and that countries in Europe are backing away from the affirmation model with its iatrogenic, irreversible medical procedures that render these children sterile, sexually dysfunctional, and dependent on hormones for the rest of their lives? What action are you taking to combat this?
  • Are you aware that children and youth are being fast-tracked without thorough psychological evaluation for sexual abuse history, and that many of these children are autistic or same-sex attracted and have internalized homophobia? Is this something you wish to support?
  • Did you know that WPATH has been exposed as promoting medical experimentation on children and vulnerable adults, knowing of the deleterious effects including sexual dysfunction, sterility, and retarding bone and brain development? Why are you treating this organization like it is the authority on gender confused youth when it is perpetrating harm?
  • Did you know that WPATH is encouraging practitioners to submit fraudulent insurance claims so they can receive payment for sex-rejecting interventions whitewashed as “gender medicine”? Are you aware WPATH is being sued for fraud and deceptive practices by several states and the FTC?
  • Did you know that the claims of suicidality of youth denied sex-rejecting medicalization is spurious? The plaintiffs admitted in oral arguments before the Supreme Court in the Skrmetti case that the suicide claims were not true, yet this falsehood continues to be repeated by Democratic candidates like Tom Steyer in the California Governor’s race. Why?
  • Are you aware that states like California are trying to pass legislation smearing actual exploratory psychotherapy, practiced for over a century, as “conversion therapy” if it doesn’t abandon its ethics, training, and clinical judgment to fast-track clients into “gender affirming care” without thorough evaluations? Why aren’t you speaking up about this?
  • Are you aware that gender ideology indoctrinates young children with regressive sexual stereotypes and the negation of sexual orientation that the women’s liberation movement worked for decades to overcome? Why are you promoting sexual stereotypes over allowing gender non-conforming children to express themselves freely?
  • Why is it tolerated to refer to another human being by only her body parts, such as “uterine-havers, birthing bodies, or front-hole havers”? Why is this not correctly identified as misogynist dehumanization and denounced? Why would you support motherhood being reduced to and redefined as “pregnant people”, as if anyone but a woman gives birth?
  • Did you know that trans-identifying men are now demanding that they be given lactation-inducing drugs like domperidone so that they can “chest feed” infants for their own gratification, putting babies at risk of harm from these chemicals? What are you going to do about this disgusting practice?
  • Are you aware that the invasion of trans-identifying males into women’s safe spaces like locker rooms, changing rooms, and bathrooms are enabling predation and nullifying laws against indecent exposure and voyeurism? What are you going to do to ensure the safety, privacy, and dignity of women and girls?
  • Are you aware that women and girls are not only being denied opportunities, awards, and endorsements in sports, but even scholarships and are being subjected to physical injuries by trans-identifying males being allowed to play on the female teams? This is a clear violation of Title IX and its intent. What are you going to do to stop this?
  • Why do Democrats perpetuate the reprehensible falsehood that those trying to save women’s sports are trying to enable “genital checks” when all that is required to identify whether an athlete is male or female is a simple cheek swab?
  • Are you aware that trans-identified males are making rape and death threats online towards any woman who does not recognize them as females? Are you aware that trans-identified males have physically assaulted women, including elderly women, at Let Women Speak rallies? What are you going to do to protect women from trans violence?
  • Are you aware that men, some of whom are actual pedophiles, have been exposing themselves to young children at Drag Queen Story Hour performances, welcomed into young children’s classrooms without even having had background checks?
  • Did you know that children are being sexualized by pornographic material in grade schools under the guise of sex education? How do you explain the shift from exposure to pornography as a reportable sex crime to an educational tool for kids who identify as LGBTQ?! When are you going to address this?!
  • Did you know that there are men calling themselves “Beyond the Plus” who are pedophiles lobbying to be seen as a legitimate “sexual orientation”? This is a direct result of gender ideology. Do you intend to allow this to happen?
  • Are you aware that sex offenders, some of whom are also murderers, are being put in women’s prisons in the same cells with biological women, just because they self-id as “trans”, and that women are being raped and impregnated? Did you know that it is the WOMEN who are disciplined when they complain? What are you going to do about this horrific injustice?
  • Are you aware that rape victims are being required to refer to their trans-identified rapists as “she” in rape trials? What are you doing about this?
  • What are you going to do about crime statistics being skewed and rendered meaningless by attributing violent crimes like rape to women when they are being committed by trans-identified men?
  • Are you aware that there are 4 women murdered every day in this country by men (however they “identify”)? What are you going to do to put a stop to this public health crisis and ensure that it is prosecuted as the hate crime that it is?
  • How much money do you receive from Big Pharma and medical or political organizations who are practicing and greatly benefiting financially from gender medicine or pornography?
  • Why are you selling women out to a men’s rights movement and the corporate lobby that supports it?

YOU CAN DOWNLOAD A PDF OF THESE QUESTIONS TO ASK DEMOCRATS, AND ALSO A PDF FOR QUESTIONS TO ASK MEDIA CAPTURED BY GENDER IDEOLOGY BELOW

References:

Male Anatomy vs. Female Anatomy

https://genspect.substack.com/p/the-sex-binary-what-it-is-and-why

https://www.realityslaststand.com/p/biology-is-not-binary-but-sex-is

https://www.citationneededpodcast.com/p/male-or-female-separating-fact-from

Women Count USA

Affirming Trans Identities is Harmful

School Boards – Grooming Kids for an Orwellian World

https://www.aljazeera.com/opinions/2024/4/19/cass-review-feminists-accused-of-being-unkind-have-been-vindicated

https://segm.org/Suicide-Gender-Dysphoric-Adolescent-Young-Adult-Finland-2024?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email

https://environmentalprogress.org/big-news/wpath-files

How the Debate Over Men in Women’s Sports Both Obscured and Advanced Sport Science

The Female Category – WHAM (Women’s Hockey Assoc. of Minnesota)

https://uncommongroundmedia.com/the-rainbow-reich-transgender-ideology-and-totalitarianism-part-i/

California transgender convict pulled from female prison for alleged rape

DOC employee reports men are claiming to be women to transfer prisons

USA: Almost 50% of Trans Inmates in Federal Custody for Sex Offences

Jeffrey Epstein Was Into ‘Trans Kids’

NAMBLA’s Secret Weapon-Who’s Behind the “Sex Offender Rights” Movement

https://nypost.com/2026/02/21/us-news/trans-minnesota-dem-leigh-finke-argues-queer-kids-need-access-to-porn-sites-for-educational-reasons/

https://washingtonstand.com/news/pornhubs-year-in-review-sextrafficking-abuse-and-age-verification

https://www.nytimes.com/2024/10/07/us/politics/porn-actors-project-2025-ad.html

https://www.dailysignal.com/2024/10/10/porn-industry-runs-ads-for-harris-in-wake-of-vps-appearance-on-sex-podcast/

https://voz.us/en/politics/241009/17063/adult-film-industry-jumps-into-campaign-in-support-of-kamala-harris.html

https://uncommongroundmedia.com/why-womens-rights-are-not-really-unpleasant-and-harmful-a-response-to-jon-ronson-dr-em/

https://uncommongroundmedia.com/understanding-your-nigella-the-harms-of-transvestic-paraphilia/

https://uncommongroundmedia.com/martine-rothblatt-a-founding-father-of-the-transgender-empire/

Canadian Mounties Blame Mass Shooting On Random Gunperson, Pronouns Bang/Bang

https://www.civitas.org.uk/content/files/2454-A-The-Corrosive-Impact-of-TI-ppi-110-WEB.pdf

https://uncommongroundmedia.com/the-rainbow-reich-transgender-ideology-and-totalitarianism-part-i/

https://uncommongroundmedia.com/the-rainbow-reich-part-ii-academia-no-platforming-silencing-of-women/

https://gaysagainstgroomers.substack.com/p/pornhub-queers-the-algorithm

https://nationalpost.com/news/canada/evolution-transgender-care-doctor

https://genspect.substack.com/p/dysphoria-inc-how-language-sells Dysphoria Inc: How Language Sells a Diagnosis

https://www.thedistancemag.com/p/forget-gender-dysphoria-almost-all Forget ‘Gender Dysphoria’: Almost All The Hormonal ‘Gender Medicine’ Is Billing Fraud

Unsealed Court Documents Show That Admiral Rachel Levine Pressured WPATH To Remove Age Guidelines From The Latest Standards Of Care

https://uncommongroundmedia.com/the-trojan-unicorn-queer-theory-and-paedophilia-part-i-dr-em/ The Trojan Unicorn: Queer Theory and Paedophilia, Part I. | Dr Em

https://uncommongroundmedia.com/the-trojan-unicorn-qt-and-paedophilia-part-ii-dr-em/ The Trojan Unicorn: QT and Paedophilia, Part II. | Dr Em

https://adflegal.org/article/leaked-files-reveal-ethical-concerns-pseudoscience-wpath-standards-care/ Leaked Files Reveal Ethical Concerns, Pseudoscience in WPATH Standards of Care

https://collider.com/linda-lovelace-deep-throat-complicated-relationship/ Linda Susan Boreman (Linda Lovelace) was coerced into filming Deep Throat, was sexually assaulted during it, and a gun was held to her head during filming.

https://www.nytimes.com/2026/07/14/opinion/project-2026-2028-democratic-platform.html?unlocked_article_code=1.xlA.a2Fz.wb–Ojfre8Y5&smid=url-share If the Democrats Actually Want to Win, This Is What They Have to Do

https://www.thefemalecategory.com/p/embarrassing-the-scotus-decision/comments Sarah Barker on the ludicrous arguments of the dissenters in the SCOTUS sports ruling

https://www.racket.news/p/meet-the-censored-kara-dansky – Interview of Kara Dansky by Matt Taibbi June 8, 2022

The Reckoning: How the Democrats and the Left Betrayed Women and Girls

https://apnews.com/article/gender-affirming-care-transgender-health-wpath-ftc-91825f64800a6aadfa4f2da989742124 Federal Trade Commission sues leading transgender health group

FTC v. WPATH https://www.ftc.gov/legal-library/browse/cases-proceedings/wpath-ftc-v

https://womensliberationfront.org/poll-data

https://www.facebook.com/WDI.USA/posts/womens-liberation-front-shares-new-polling-shows-that-support-for-gender-identit/670878805209240/

https://hecheated.org/ A record of MALES who have robbed FEMALE athletes of success and opportunities in sport and the organizations who have helped them do so.

https://x.com/babybeginner/status/1885231518521712937?s=20 “Kill all terfs”

The Three Questions I’d Ask Someone Who Says, “Trans Women Are Women”

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Download a pdf of the Questions to Ask Democrats

Download a pdf of the Questions to Ask Media

THE POWER OF WORDS

by Ann E. Menasche

This piece is the opinion of the author and does not necessarily reflect the opinions of Feminists in Struggle as an organization.

Never underestimate the power of words.   Words are the weapons of both capitalist patriarchy and radical feminism.  Words can challenge the status quo and lead to radical transformation, i.e., be a force for good, or instead change the meaning of our reality – turning it on its head – blinding us to injustices and atrocities of all kinds, and, as George Orwell recognized, bolstering authoritarian regimes and practice

I can think of many examples of the Orwellian use of language.   War is often prettified by righteous and lofty sounding names that hide its bloody reality measured in the destroyed lives of civilian populations and the greed and thirst for domination that usually underlies it.  The U.S. named its Iran war of choice, “Operation Epic Fury”; Israel named its collective punishment and genocidal destruction of the people of Gaza, “Operation Roaring Lion.”

In the same vein, the City of San Diego, where I live, has set up camps for hundreds of unhoused people, packing them into tents two feet apart.  The camps are full of rats and other vermin, offer only two meals a day, with food poisoning commonplace, and residents who stay there months or years at a time – frying  in the summer and freezing in the winter – often have no choice but to agree to be placed there or risk jail for violating anti-homeless ordinances.  So far, 19 people have died at the camps.  The name for these camps?   “The Safe-Sleeping Program.”  You don’t get any more Orwellian than that.

Then there is the war on women, a war we women of the world live every day even outside an official war zone.  The anti-abortion or forced pregnancy movement found a good Orwellian name for itself – “pro-life.” or the “right to life” movement.  As feminists would chant at abortion rights marches – “Right to life, your name’s a lie, you don’t care if women die.”  And they don’t.

Not to be outdone, another front in the same war on our sex, is the sex denialist/”gender reassignment” industry and its followers.  They have been working overtime to change the meaning of everyday language to its opposite.   Men/women, female/male no longer refer to sex, which is deemed either not to exist or has become a dirty word, not to be mentioned in polite company.  The substitute for actual sex is some amorphous subjective feeling called “gender identity”, basically, where you believe you fit within the spectrum of 1950’s style “masculine” and “feminine” stereotypes – between GI Joe and Barbie.

When women as a distinct category of persons based on our sex are erased, it becomes impossible to name, measure or remedy sexism or male supremacy.

The principal catechism, or article of faith promoted by these fundamentalist ideologues that is beyond questioning or reasoned discourse is “trans women are women.”   In other words, some men are women (and vice-a-versa) though we mostly care about the men, of course, since they are, well, men. And it follows that some men are lesbians, which defines out of existence that pesky group of women, a thorn in the side of patriarchy, that have said “no” to males and just want to be with each other.

Though this ideology has parasitically attached itself to the “left” and the LGB movement, there is nothing progressive or pro-gay about it.

Even to refer to someone’s sex, is now treated as a confession of “bigotry” and “hate.”    Ask a group like Amnesty International that used to do- and still sometimes does – good work.

But words can trick you. Would anyone not in the know understand that the gentle sounding supposedly “lifesaving” “gender affirming care” for “trans kids” consists of drastic quasi-medical interventions that sterilize them, and remove healthy body parts?

Or understand that “Safe Sleeping” is actually unsafe?

Or that “sex work” refers to the buying and selling of the bodies of women and girls, whose lives are characterized by childhood trauma, poverty, and lack of options, not to some freely chosen though perhaps unfairly maligned profession? Mis-leading language works.

Supporters of “gender identity” are serious about promoting this particular form of insanity and punishing dissidents all over the world. And we should pay attention.

In New South Wales, Australia last year, Kirralie Smith was ordered to pay $95,000 to two trans-identified males for opposing the inclusion of men identifying as “women” in women’s sports and referring to men by their sex.  By doing so, the Court found that Kirralie had “incited hatred towards, serious contempt for or severe ridicule of a soccer player for being transgender” and that she had violated Australia’s Anti-discrimination Act.  She was ordered to admit her guilt and post her confession on social media. And told of course to shut up and never say such a thing again.

The grand inquisitor of 15th century Spain, Tomas de Torqueda, would have been proud.

Use your words wisely, sisters, but use them.

Tell the truth as you understand it. Don’t let yourselves ever be silenced.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A REPLAY OF THE LAVENDER MENACE: NATIONAL NOW CONFERENCE SILENCES AND DISAPPEARS LESBIANS

By Ann E. Menasche

This piece is the opinion of the author and does not necessarily represent the opinion of Feminists in Struggle as an organization

Lesbian existence is fundamentally about women’s autonomy and independence from men- the freedom to say “no” to men and to say “yes” to other women.  Both are acts of resistance that are deeply stigmatized and often severely punished.   Without the freedom to be an open lesbian, there can be no women’s liberation.

From the early days of the Second Wave, some feminists did the work of the patriarchy – silencing, excluding and disappearing lesbians.

It happened once again at the national conference of the National Organization for Women (NOW) held in Alexandria, Virginia, June 25th to 27th 2026.   About 200 people, mostly women, attended the conference in person, and a couple of dozen attended remotely.

At the Conference, lesbians who met in caucus to demand the basic right to meet together and self-organize as lesbians in women- only spaces (apart from males, whatever their “gender identity”) were treated abysmally.  They were disrespected, yelled at, called “TERFS” – an anti-lesbian, anti-feminist slur –  accused of “discrimination” and verbally abused.

The lesbian caucus proposed a resolution calling on NOW to support Lesbian-only spaces.   The resolution read in part, “WHEREAS, lesbians have a right to define their sexual orientation on the basis of same sex attraction…WHEREAS the sex-based rights of lesbians includes the freedom to assemble and to organize on the basis of their common same sex sexual orientation…THEREFORE, BE IT RESOLVED, that the National Organization for Women (NOW) reaffirms its solidarity in standing with lesbians when lesbians seek to create sex-segregated spaces to gather to discuss their lives in safety and mutual support.”

The leadership of NOW pulled all stops to make sure this resolution did not reach the floor for a vote.  Gender ideologues have captured most of NOW’s leadership and part of its membership.   There are, of course, dissenters, but at least until recently, they have been terrified of speaking out and facing the fury of witch-hunters who not only ostracize apostates but destroy jobs and livelihoods, and threaten or even carry out physical assaults.   The true believers at the Conference, in an apparently coordinated fashion, spent substantial time challenging every resolution and bylaw that came before the body, nitpicking every word and phrase in an attempt to take up as much time as possible.

Exactly twelve minutes before the time the conference was set to close, the delegates finally began to address the lesbian resolution.  After a couple of lesbians including myself spoke in favor, one woman asked “what about transwomen, are they to be included in these spaces since they are lesbians too?”    Then a motion was made to table the resolution “indefinitely”, which is not even possible under Roberts Rules. That motion was defeated.  The resolution itself was now ready to be voted on. It was  exactly 4:00 p.m., the time the Convention was scheduled to end.  Voting would have taken two to three minutes, done quickly by raising hands and credentials, as it had throughout the day.  However, the chair, NOW President Kim Villanueva, closed the meeting and called my motion to allow the vote to proceed “out of order.”  The message was that lesbians, at least those who stand up for their community, are not truly welcome in NOW.

Lesbians have always fought back.   In May of 1970, lesbians attending the Second Congress to Unite Women were sick of being forced into the closet, and the exclusion of  lesbian issues from the movement. They took over the stage, unveiled “lavender menace” tee-shirts, and demanded  recognition of lesbian issues as part and parcel of the struggle for women’s liberation.

For a time, the women’s movement embraced  its lesbian sisters.  No longer.  The misogyny and homophobia of gender identity ideology has assigned lesbians to irrelevance and conspired to our complete erasure.  For if men can be lesbians, there ARE no lesbians!

But our little group of lesbians and radical feminist allies, many defiantly sporting their own Lavender Menace tee-shirts at the Conference,  have just begun to fight to take our movement back. THE LAVENDER MENACE SHALL RISE AGAIN!

 

 

 

 

CAN ANY WOMAN BE A LESBIAN? FASCINATING FORUM SET FOR JULY 11th – TICKETS ON SALE NOW!

FEMINISTS IN STRUGGLE IS SPONSORING THIS SPECIAL WOMEN-ONLY FORUM ON ZOOM.

What if heterosexuality wasn’t innate, but enforced and expected?

Can any woman be a lesbian?

Saturday, July 11th, 12:00 noon Pacific Time, 3:00 pm. Eastern

TICKETS ON SALE NOW: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1992292981940?aff=oddtdtcreator

Participate in this fascinating discussion on feminism, political lesbianism and compulsory heterosexuality led by contributors to the recently published anthology, “I Wiah I Was a Lesbian: Women’s Lives Beyond Heterosexuality” (Spinifex Press, 2026).

FIST FORUMS are interactive events with plenty of time for questions and discussion. Zoom link will be provided after registration close to the event.

SPEAKERS:

  1. ANGELA C. WILD is a political artist, lesbian feminist activist, and writer. An unapologetic radical feminist her work is dedicated to promoting uncompromising lesbian visibility, building a lesbian culture, defending women-only spaces, and dismantling patriarchal institutions such as compulsory heterosexuality, compulsory motherhood, sexual violence, and pornography. She is the editor of “I Wish I Was a Lesbian.”
  2. TABATA SPINSTER is a radical lesbian feminist, writer, and multi-disciplinary artists from Mexico, deeply committed to creation from political consciousness and lesbian rebellion. Her photography and graphic art has been published and exhibited in cities like Mexico City, Prague and Argentina. She has collaborated with various feminist organizations focused on arts and independent cultural management.
  3. ANN E. MENASCHE is a radical lesbian feminist and revolutionary with roots in both the feminist movement and the socialist left. She is a founding member and co-coordinator of Feminists In Struggle and works as a civil rights attorney representing low income tenants and unhoused people. She is the author of Leaving the Life, and many poems and essays.
  4. CHARLIE MAY is a lesbian, feminist, seafarer, writer, and scientist with a long history of campaigning for human rights. She first stepped into radical feminism sharing her experiences living with a trans identity and extreme discomfort around her sex. Despite ongoing threats and harassment, Charlie helped open dialogue around the unmet needs of women who were previously trans identified.

CAN THE DRAFT SAVE THE EQUAL RIGHTS AMENDMENT? Forum planned for Saturday June 13th with Wendy Murphy!

 FEMINIST FORUM: CAN THE DRAFT SAVE THE  EQUAL RIGHTS AMENDMENT?

Saturday, June 13  •  11 AM – 1 PM

Get your tickets HERE:

On Saturday, June 13th at 11:00 a.m. Pacific Time/2:00 p.m. Eastern, join us for a dive into the latest ERA court case and arguments for legal equality for our sex!

This Zoom forum features renowned feminist attorney WENDY MURPHY and should be a stimulating presentation and discussion!

 

WENDY MURPHY is adjunct professor of Sexual Violence and Law Reform at New England Law in Boston where she also co-directs the Women’s and Children’s Advocacy Project (WCAP) under the Center for Law and Social Responsibility. WCAP runs the Judicial Language Project, and the Hate Crimes Against Women project, WCAP also files amicus briefs and engages in public interest litigation to advance the rights of women and children. On January 7, 2020, WCAP filed a first-in-the-nation federal lawsuit to validate the Equal Rights Amendment (ERA) in Massachusetts federal court.

Wendy is an impact litigator who practices in state and federal courts and specializes in advancing the constitutional and civil rights of women and children. She has authored numerous scholarly articles including a landmark piece explaining the legal relationship between sexual assault on campus and Title IX. Her most recent law review article is a feminist critical re-examination of the history of women’s struggle for equality and is entitled, “Unequal Protection of the Laws for Women is Constitutional Terrorism, So How Come Nobody Knows about It?”

She has also appeared on television as a legal analyst for many years and has worked for NBC, CBS, CNN, and Fox News and has provided legal analysis for print and television media. She is the author of two books, “And Justice For Some,” published by Penguin/Sentinel in 2007 and “Oh No He Didn’t: Brilliant Women and the Men Who Took Credit for Their Work,” published by Cynren Press in 2024.

Wendy’s recent article in the Boston Herald, “Unequal draft, unequal rights: Automatic registration for men means women will lose standing in fight for rights” addresses the issues of the Equal Means Equal v. Donald J. Trump case that she will cover in this seminar.

 

FIST forums are held remotely on Zoom, and are women only, interactive events, allowing for time for questions and discussion. Registrants will be provided with a zoom link closer to the event date. Please arrive ten minutes before the scheduled start time. Our forums are also recorded and uploaded to our You Tube channel,  for later viewing by women and men.

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FIST ISSUES STATEMENT ON THE WAR ON IRAN

At the time of this posting, the world remains on edge as we wait to hear whether a final settlement of this war is reached, or whether the war will sooner or later flare up again with more violence, death and destruction.  Meanwhile, the killing of civilians in Lebanon and Gaza has continued unabated.  The time for feminists to speak out for peace and in solidarity with our sisters everywhere is now.

Members of Feminists In Struggle have approved by consensus a statement against the U.S./Israel War on Iran and in support of Iranian feminists. 

Here it is below:

FIST stands against the unjustified and reckless war being waged against Iran by the Trump Administration.  The Epstein Axis, led by Trump and Netanyahu is in part about distracting their populations from issues of systemic rape and pedophilia by the elites.  But is also about acquiring and protecting wealth, power, and empire, while being indifferent to the deaths of innocent civilians.

We  must oppose this war as it violates all of the Geneva Convention rules, including starting a war of choice not justified by self-defense, committing war crimes by targeting civilians and civilian infrastructure (hospitals, schools, energy facilities) and openly admitting genocidal intent (Trump’s recent threat to send Iran “back to the stone age” ).

Women suffer from war, often disproportionately, from the increased violence, displacement, poverty and fanaticism it engenders. Clearly, this war is not in our interests.

However, our opposition, as feminists, to this war does not mean we support the authoritarian theocratic government in Iran.

SUPPORT FOR FEMINISTS IN IRAN

While many on the left believe that the only two possible positions in this conflict are to side with the theocratic regime or the U.S. attack, FIST takes the position that we must support neither, but instead support Iranian ​Feminists and other progressives, now being murdered and jailed by their government by the thousands (current figures are 7,000 killed, 40,000 arrested) as a result of recent uprisings. The attack by the U.S. will only strengthen the hand of this cruel regime and worsen its crackdown against its citizens.

Women in Iran face systemic legal discrimination and operate under male guardianship that restricts their rights in marriage, divorce, travel, and employment; legally, a woman’s testimony has half the value of a man’s; inheritance by women is a pittance of what men receive; a woman needs her father’s or grandfather’s permission to marry and husbands have an almost absolute right to divorce, while initiating divorce for women is difficult; Iranian law mandates strict, state-enforced hijab with penalties that include flogging, fines and imprisonment (and in the case of the death of Jina Mahsa Amini murder–which is what sparked the “Women, Life, Freedom” movement of 2022-2023). Women in Iran have been resisting this sex apartheid system since 1979!

.EFFECTS OF THE WAR ON THE U.S.

The unprovoked attack by the U.S. on Iran is having and will continue to  have devastating effects on U.S. society.  The over one trillion dollars spent on weapons each year benefitting war profiteers, leaves little for education, childcare, healthcare, affordable housing, DV shelters, and public benefits that so many women need to survive.

The war will give the Trump administration an excuse to increase the military budget even further and defund human needs programs (many of which particularly impact women).  Working people will have an even harder time to survive, as prices across the board increase, possibly leading to a worldwide depression. There is also the possibility of a further spread of the conflict (many Gulf states have now been forced to become involved) and a World War III scenario cannot be discounted

While serving as distraction to the scandal over the Epstein files, this war is being waged mainly for reasons of imperialism: the controlling of resources—in this case, oil—of another country, and it reinforces a worldwide economy based on fossil fuels, which can only hasten the ongoing ecological planetary crisis. None of this is in the interest of women in the U.S., Iran, or elsewhere.

For the above reasons, we say NO to Islamic (or any) Theocracy. We say NO to U.S. imperialism. We say NO to government funds going into the pockets of war profiteers and advancing the aims of the warmongers while regular people in all nations suffer. We demand a U.S. government that honors international law, that prioritizes spending for peoples’ needs and centers the needs of women, and that promotes peace throughout the Middle East and the world.

Celebrate Women’s Rights on July 4, 2026

On July 4, 2026, the nation’s semiquincentennial, we are enlisting women and men across the country to acknowledge the fully-ratified Equal Rights Amendment by reading a Women’s Declaration of Independence 2.0 (an updated version of the Declaration of Sentiments) and singing The ERA Song (sung to the tune of America the Beautiful) and the Battle Hymn of Equality (sung to the tune of the Battle Hymn of the Republic) and recording both and posting them online. Anyone wishing to do so can gather together 2 or 3 friends, a group of women, a choir, or any configuration they choose to read and perform the songs and may download them here.

Women’s Declaration of Independence 2.0 reads as follows:

When, in the course of human events,
it becomes necessary for one-half of the people
to call a nation back to its own truths,
we declare the causes which compel us to speak.

We hold these truths to be self-evident:
that all persons are created equal;
that women are persons;
and that government exists to secure these truths—
not to delay or deny them.

The words “Equal Justice Under Law” are carved in stone.
Yet they have never applied fully to women,
because women have never had full legal equality
under the United States Constitution.

Although the Fourteenth Amendment promised equal protection,
it has never been applied equally to women.

And although the Equal Rights Amendment—
ratified in 2020—establishes equality,
it has not been implemented.

“Equality of rights under the law shall not be denied or abridged
by the United States or by any State on account of sex.”

Women bring forth life,
sustain families,
serve their communities,
and defend this nation.
To deny them constitutional equality
is to deny their dignity, humanity, and rights.

Yet courts apply a lesser standard—
intermediate scrutiny—
to laws that discriminate on the basis of sex,
allowing inequality to continue.
The highest standard, strict scrutiny,
remains unavailable to women.

As a result, women are denied equal protection,
economic equality,
and full protection from violence and exploitation.

These injustices are not accidental—
they are legally authorized.

We declare:
women are equal citizens of this Republic.
Equality must be clear in law
and in its enforcement.

We call upon the people to demand:
the full implementation and enforcement
of the Equal Rights Amendment—
by all courts,
and all government officials.

A nation that treats women unequally
cannot be a democracy.

Therefore, we declare:
the Equal Rights Amendment is part of the Constitution.
It is the law.

Women will no longer accept inequality.
We demand equality now—
nothing more, nothing less.

In the spirit of 1776, the Declaration of Sentiments of 1848, and the ratification of the Equal Rights Amendment in 2020.

Drafted in 2026 by a Committee of the National ERA Publication Task Force. org.

#untilwomenareequal

#wewillnotbesilent

For more information on this campaign, go to: https://untilwomenareequal.org/